kahwin, aurat dan perempuan.

today, mom bought 'Pesona Pengantin'. the magazine.
maybe just to have some inputs or whatever she needs for the preparation of my brother's wedding.

tebal.
14 ringgit something.

sampai rumah, i selak-selak la that magazine.
rasanya macam first time pegang majalah 'pengantin' dan tahu maksud, isi, dan tujuan majalah tu. before ni selak-selak tengok gambar je.
but now macam dah faham sikit-sikit la all the contents and what are their objectives.

until i reached a segment:
Gaya Anggun Pengantin Muslimah.

and i looked at the pictures.

.......

nah.
i dont have time to scan or snap the pictures inside the mag.

i don't know if nowadays people interpret 'muslimah' only as a woman with tudung. you pakai tudung with tight shirt pun dah cukup untuk you dipanggil muslimah. kalau nak kahwin pun cukup dengan tambah tudung, then there a muslimah you are.

no people. no.

i really have to say this.
'muslimah' is very sacred word for me and i really feels annoy with people who take this lightly.

baju pengantin 'muslimah' nowadays is beautiful i have to say. with the colour, the material, the lace and whatever you have on the dress, they are gorgeous.

but one thing that i see at all places when i search for baju pengantin muslimah is the uncovered chest.

kalau sempoi sket, stret aku cakap nampak breast~hahahaha.

i hate the heavy feeling when i look at the pictures of woman wearing the bride dress with their hump here and there, and the title is gaya anggun pengantin muslimah.

it's like what the?

i admit i still dont accept my self as a muslimah. not that i mean i'm not a muslim.
but, to say to people that i am a muslimah, with only a shirt and nearly tight trouser on me, no i will never do that. meaning is, i'm still not the best example.

at least, i will admit, "myself is not the example. let me show you the real one."

"there! you see?"

ergh.
the thing is that,

DON'T MAKE THINGS UP JUST TO MAKE THINGS THAT YOU DO RIGHT.

you wear a tight shirt with short tudung without covering your chest and a skinny jean, then you type to the world," gaya muslimah yang terbaru", "fashion terbaru untuk imej bertudung," "who said a muslimah cannot have fashion?"

things like these.
understand me?

sometimes its kinda pathetic and tiring when i have to draw a line between a real muslimah and a fake muslimah whenever i browse to muslimah's fashion.  


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i masih lagi berusaha mencari gambar-gambar atau idea-idea untuk baju pengantin muslimah yang gorgeous but at the same never violates the real rules in being a muslimah. i found some and i wish to found more.

but remember. i never said i'm the right one. i just want to remind the others, don't violate the sacred word.

try la google baju pengantin muslimah and tell me how many answers yang betul2 show gaya sebenar muslimah. evenkalau type baju pengantin muslimah tutup dada pun belum tentu jumpa! kahkahkah.

ada tu ada la jugak.
but then come the second point.

"i nak yang gorgeous."
ha.ha.ha.

women are difficult.